God has a way of doing all things. When He wants to shift you, move you or get your attention, He starts making you uncomfortable. When you start to feel uneasy, that means it's time to make a change in how you're operating. This uncomfortability you feel is your wakeup call. This uncomfortability is your purpose, your destiny, and your future . It is knocking on your door so you can open it and step in. He takes away comfort to open your eyes because He needs you to grow, heal, reach higher heights, and your purpose. We as black women get way too comfortable with where we are in life and begin to settle. whether it be on a job or in a career, we get cozy with our lives but what happens when God needs you on your next BEST level? You start feeling that tug within your spirit and your soul telling you it's time to boss up, but we tend to ignore it because we are satisfied. That sense of being comfortable allows us to know that we're "safe". We know what we can expect and leaving that means we're not in our “safe" zone anymore and we begin to fear the unknown. If God is stretching some part of our life it’s best to cooperate with Him, because He is up to something. Do not allow comfortability to be a stumbling block for your next level on your journey.
A true Statement, "What has been will be again". Dating has been going on for centuries. We collect data from the person and decide if their personality is a right fit. If you haven't dated for a long time it can be challenging. Get to know yourself and be patient with the process.